For 25 years I’ve been watching Oprah Winfrey share her life and ideas with America and the world. I’ve learned a lot about celebrities and people making a difference but I’ve learned more about myself. In the late 1990’s Oprah began “Change Your Life” television by taking her show in a direction that would empower others. It was at this point where I actually wrote a letter to my boss at Star 94 and was considering resigning to move to another morning show. I’ve never shared this with anyone before now. (Leaving your comfort zone of over 20 years is dificult isn’t it!) In the end, the new morning show didn’t happen and I remained at Star 94 and moved into a more prominent position with Steve McCoy and Vikki Locke. Being brave enough to want to leave the “nest egg” and make a change was something I learned from watching Oprah.
I have many wonderful “life lessons” that I’ve absorbed over the years from Oprah and her team that have enriched me spiritually, emotionally and financially. In the past several months I made attempts to obtain tickets from Oprah’s website. I’d go to sleep at night and then wake up like Christmas morning and run to the computer to see if I had been selected to attend a taping of the show. The email read “sorry but we can’t accommodate your request for tickets at this time…” Over the years I also submitted several “Be on the show” story ideas from the Oprah website. Everything from “Are you a male Oprah fan”, “How did the show change your life” to “Harpo Hookups” (where I wanted to be Tigger for a day Disney or the guest announcer on The Price is Right!”)
With only 3 shows left (and the first two were her “surprise celebrity” shows taped May 17th at The United Center in Chicago) I knew only one show remained. The Oprah “finale” show! I wondered who would be lucky enough to attend this historic show.
On Friday I received an email from the Oprah show stating that they had received my email and I was invited to attend the Oprah Winfrey show in Chicago!! Words cannot describe my joy rising! I now know where I’ll be on Wednesday May 25th at 4 p.m.
Thank You! With love and gratitude. Tom
And here I am!
During the pre-show, Senior Audience Coordinator Sally Lou called me down to the Oprah stage to dance and share the energy that had filled the room. Sally Lou yells in the microphone “Tom Sullivan is here!! This is Tom Sullivan everybody!”
While “I’ve had the time of my life” was playing, I was engulfed in this unforgettable moment that was EXHILARATING!! OFF THE CHAIN!!! I was jumping up and down, hugging women I didn’t even know. I turned and thanked the Harpo team for everything they’ve done. Then Sally Lou asked me to stay on stage with her as she asked “Who are you Tom Sullivan, where have you been?!” She handed me the microphone and at that moment I said “I’m here for Oprah!!! We Love Oprah!! WHO LOVES OPRAH!! This is Joy Rising!! The entire room erupted!! Then I said “Would someone please take my picture because I won’t remember ANY of this!” Tyler Perry, Maria Shriver were all laughing. The party kept going! Stedman, Gayle, Bob Greene, Suze Orman, BeBe Winans, Cicely Tyson and even Oprah’s fourth grade teacher Mary Alice Duncan all applauded. The opportunity reminded me of Oprah’s final message: Find your calling and be your best. Empower others no matter what stage you’re on.
Sally Lou who’s amazing contagious energy filled everyone in the room. My energy tank overflowed!
Sharvonne who contacted me after reading my email and invited me to Harpo Studios for the farewell show.
Stedman and Oprah’s fourth-grade teacher Mrs. Duncan
Also thank you to the team at Airtran Airways who worked with me during the storms to rearrange my flight. Thank You to Vikki Locke at B98.5 FM (You can hear my interview here.) And to Cindy and Ray at Star 94 FM (you can hear the interview here.) And to 98.1 FM KYKY “Phillips & Company”. (You can hear the interview here.) And thank you to the tireless team at Harpo studios who operated 24/7 in pure excellence in helping deliver the most exceptional show in television history. So grateful to be there! I’m looking forward to more of my OWN incredible moments.
Ratings Note: The farewell episode averaged 16.4 million total viewers, making it the most-watched episode in more than 18 years since February 15, 1993!
I am a very positive person but sometimes I drift off my path and let “can’t” creep into my mind. My gym has a sign that reads “check can’t at the door.” I used to workout at LA Fitness and the Akers Mill location had written on the wall in the free weight area “Never let weakness convince you that you lack strength.” Now, analyze what this is really saying. The word NEVER, WEAKNESS, CONVINCE YOU and YOU LACK STRENGTH jumped out at me. The message although meant to encourage and inspire is filled with negative thoughts! What should have been printed on the wall were words to empower the mind and spirit: Strength, Growth, Focus, Energy, Willpower, Breathe, Correct Form, Greatness, Winner….positive words that evoke a powerful feeling and reinforce your overall mission in the gym.
So often we fill our minds and lives with criticism. When was the last time you were offered encouragement? Recently Jeff Henderson delivered a tremendous message on Encouragement and how we should fill up our lives and the lives of others daily. (Watch Jeff deliver the message HERE. Select “Part 6: The Encouragement app.) Offering encouragement is free and will enrich your life in so many ways!
As you set out on your day, focus on the positive. The glass IS half full! Believe in your dreams and that you can achieve them. Write them down. Focus on your wants, exercise your creativity, and do something daily that moves you closer to your dream. Ask yourself, how can you depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus?